If you are struggling with yourself and your self-image, I want you to know this; There truly is a way out of it. It`s when we think that there`s nothing we can do or we believe that nothing works or change no matter how much we try when we become devastated and start to feel stuck. But the truth is that there`s always something you can do and when you keep taking the steps towards better days, when you keep finding answers and ways to heal – YOU WILL get results.
It`s crazy not to love ourselves. It`s crazy to waste this precious life and be against ourselves, not to approve ourselves and we always know that in some level inside of us. I believe that the real question is; Are you willing to do the work what it takes to heal your heart? Are you willing to face the fears you have to face and give this life a chance to show you it`s magic?
The time when I was struggling the most with myself I always had this feeling inside of me that I knew that this wasn`t the “real me”. I knew that somewhere underneath all the negative thoughts, the self-blame, and guilt was a better version of me. Someone authentic and forgiving. I knew in my head that I was amazing human being but the truth was that I couldn`t feel it. I had not learned to feel that. I was able to think rationally that I`m as good as anybody else but I couldn’t feel that I was worthy.
It was after realization to realization when I started to understand what was causing my feelings of worthless and what I had to do to change that. I knew that I had to work that I would start feeling lovable and worthy. I knew I had to get that information into my subconscious and into my bones.
We have to always understand that we don’t learn to be against ourselves naturally – life happens to us. This life which is a miracle but not always fair or easy. And it`s after we can forgive our personal story and what happened to us when we can start to heal and that`s how you change the world. It`s powerful and it`s true.
I wouldn`t be here writing about the importance of self-love if there wouldn`t be people who were doing the same thing that I am – sharing their story, their struggles, and knowledge of healing they’re selves. And that`s the ultimate reason why my blog is here. There are people out there who helped me to make the change and `cause they were brave enough to share their path. And I wish, know and pray that I can be that somebody to someone else out there (for you!).