Hi there lovelies, I hope you have had a great week – we are on our favorite day of the week – FRIDAY already and I hope you have had exciting week behind you as well as I hope great and relaxing weekend for you!
Today I’m sharing my five tips to feel and be more Woman and what I think is essential to master to really grow to be yourself and a woman who you desire to be. If you have been following me on Instagram you have probably noticed that I LOVE everything beautiful, elegance and simplicity – if you are not – please join me! Follow me along if you want to have weekly encouragement to grow yourself as a woman and beautiful person who you truly are and also get inspired by beautiful photography ——>> @hannelehyyppa I would also want to invite you to freely use my #dreamsbeyondordinary and say hello to me there!
Tell you the truth, I’ve always been a little bit old fashioned. I love manners and traditions and I believe that there`s works that suit better for men and others that suit for women, and this difference is something we should cherish. Maybe this comes from my own need – I`ve always been very feminine and I can`t tell you how many times I’ve been very thankful that I really am a woman and that I don`t have to change my car tires if I don`t want to! `cause that really is not “my thing” …and I could tell you many other things that I prefer to leave my man to do, but i think you get what I mean 😉
So here`s the five things I believe in my heart that will make you feel better about yourself as a woman who you desire to be and give`s you happiness to your days if you just implement these to your everyday life.
Five Fostering Manners That Every Woman Should Master
I love people who are kind. Don`t you also? The kindness that comes from the heart is the most beautiful characters that woman can have. When you are kind to other people the magic happens and you get kindness pack. It`s the circle of sharing a love. Be kind enough to answer the messages you get, be kind to your children, be kind to a stranger that needs help – for someone who seems to need it most and never forget to be kind to yourself.
What kindness is not; Overwhelming yourself for sake of others or excuse to get you out of the awkward situations. Kindness is an act that comes from the heart and it can be your way of living, a thing that you choose to bring more to this world from your part. Authenticly kind person is a beautiful person – no one can deny that.
I would like to invite you to make a little investigation this weekend. Would you? The next two days – investigate yourself and look yourself from outside. Are you putting yourself down with words or action? When someone praises you – do you thank them or are you downplaying yourself? In my country it`s in our culture to be very humble and this is so deep in our veins – it has really taken an effort to change that in me, to be able to take compliments and just say kindly – thank you so much.
Respecting yourself is a HUGE topic – and this is something you can start with. You can also think about your boundaries and what is important to you. How do you want people to treat you? and remember – it all starts from the beginning – from YOU, how do you treat yourself first.
Do you agree with me that this is probably the hardest things to unlearn? But I can sure you – it is possible! If you are living in a society – you have a home, you have money to buy food and you have at least one loved one beside you – you are okay. <3 It Doesn’t mean you can`t dream a better life or want more – of course, you can but complaining is not going to lead you to a better life. My personal belief is that people in wellbeing societies are those who complain most. The people who are really suffering in life, really really pore and don`t know how to survive to the next day – they are not the ones who complain most.
A while ago I made a promise to myself that every time I found myself complaining about something trivial I will ask myself “Do you really want to be that kind of woman? Or Do you really want to be an elegant woman?”
CREATING A STYLE
I believe that style matters. It’s not indifferent how you take care of yourself, how you treat yourself, how you do your hair or how you dress. That all is a matter of Who you are. Let your style be something that show’s your character – what you are within and what you stand for. ’cause when we care something – that give’s us more meaningful life. Is it the thing that you do your nails every week? That your grandchildren would speak a story about their grandma who had gorgeous nails and she never showed up anywhere without her hands looking beautiful – I love that kind of stories – they say us that it’s okay to have fun and take care of yourself and be memorable because of that!
Or is it the thing that you only wear organic clothes – increasing awareness of organic clothing – looking gorgeous every day and standing behind your beliefs?
Be You – Inside Out. Enjoy to take care of you and care how you show up to this world.
The power of gratitude – The first step to happiness and abundant life is always, always gratitude. There is no other way. We don’t deserve anything if we are not grateful for what we already have and it really makes sense, doesn`t it? We need to first show that we care and then we can receive. 💗💗💗 I know it`s something you have probably heard a thousand times but it really makes you stop and taste your life when you keep a journal or list of what you are grateful. Maybe a gratitude list this evening?