Have you ever secretly desired, even once in a lifetime, to be the most beautiful girl in the party? Oh, yes. Me too.
But, what is really behind that thought? Frist of all, I think the desire to be adored as a woman and feel beautiful has been coded very deep in our roots. Isn’t it obvious that we women, we just need that a little bit more than men? Many women have tried to push the feminine side down in a fear of not been taken seriously or not to show up as a superficial or stupid. But, I think that we should CELEBRATE that side of us and never be ashamed to enjoy womanhood and wanting to be adored!
I have friends who say that their partners never say nice things to them, but men don`t always know or realize to do that if we don`t say that to them. We can simply ask and say: “I would like that if you would sometimes say nice things about me – why you love me and what you find attractive in me – it would make me feel a beautiful and adored”. Our partners are usually genuine and that is a great way to boost self-esteem and feeling of self-worth.
One thing that we also desire is to be remembered and valued. So, today I have a FUN tip for you!
Create your personal ME thing.
Wouldn`t you want to be remembered for something positive, even if it’s only for your family, your children or grandchildren?
Your personal ME thing is something about your style, your hobby or even about home styling…anything you love, honor and cherish and stay faithful for your whole life. Let people know what you love and value and be remembered because of that 💗
My mother refuses to put on any other underwears than the ones that are couples and belongs together. A different pair of underwear is her abomination and I have never seen her use anything else that pairs. I admire her for it. She`s made her mind – she’s never changed that opinion and that is something that I will always remember as her “ME thing”.
(…and just think about it how a small thing as that can make you feel more beautiful and an elegant woman)
So, what could be your personal ME thing? Or do you already have one – please share it with me – I would love to know?